Are Democrats losing the women's vote?: Does Obama make women feel less safe?

Everybody values competence, and Obama's approach of never taking responsibility and blaming others might be wearing thin.  Obama surely hasn't show competence when claiming that he didn't know what was happening with everything with IRSgate, EPAgate, APgate, VAgate, NSAgate, Secret email gate, StateDepartmentgate, etc.    If women are generally more risk averse then men, possibly this incompetence